Men like this exist...
A narcissist will make you feel like you're the best thing he'd ever laid eyes on. The idealize phase . He makes you think you've got it going on. This is only a ploy to reel you in. When he met you, his goal from the start was to make you feel as special as possible. It was all fake. You may be special, but not to him.
Instant gratification is what he is in search of. Narcissist use other people to feel good about themselves. If he treats you good, he knows you will be his supply until he finds someone else. Then he will devalue you. Then he will discard you. This is a game to the narcissist. You were his target. Learn the 25 signs your man is a narcissist.
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1. Craves admiration and acknowledgment . If you give a narcissist praise he will give you the biggest show of your life. A party isn't a party until a narcissist walks into the room. They have to be the center of attention or else. They feel superior to everyone and will sometimes even pretend to have done something great just for the acknowledgment.
2. Needs compliments to feel good about himself. Compliments make a narcissist feel alive. Their whole game is to be admired 24/7. This is the only thing that gets their juices flowing. He can't go even a day without this. If you don't give him compliments he will find someone that will. He already has his eye on the next target anyway.
3. Is always trying to make himself look good in front of others . Will put on a big show to make himself look superior around people. He demands to be the center of attention or else he'd rather be alone.
4. Loves instant gratification . Narcissists are always searching for people or things that will give them instant gratification. He will have sex with just about anyone who pays him some attention.
5. Never really loves anyone, but himself.
Some may even believe that narcissists aren't capable of loving others at all. They pretend to love. A narcissist feels love physically, not emotionally. This is why they are always searching for new partners. A narcissist shows his love through sex, gifts and paying the bills.
He believes this is all it takes to show love. If you stay with a narcissist for too long, you will forget what real love is.
6. Has to have control. Narcissists are control freaks. He will want to control everything in your life. What you look like, where you go and who you talk to. He will constantly try to make you change to fit what he wants you to be. He will also drill you on even your regular daily activities. He wants to know and be in control of everything.
7. Is in competition with everyone. Narcissists believe they are superior to everyone. They also love it when people compete for their attention. They love the silly fighting women do over them. This will feed a narcissist already too big ego.
8. Is always the victim. He gets a kick out of making people believe he has been wronged. He wants others to feel his fake pain and feel sorry for him. Oh you poor baby, how could she treat you like that.
9. Always shifts the blame. Everything he does is because someone else made him do it. Will take no responsibility for his actions if they are negative. Narcissists avoid problems until they get out of hand. Even if they are late for something. You or someone else was the reason for it.
10. Shows little or no emotion . Narcissists can't stand being around emotional people. Showing a lot of emotions will cause conflict between you and the narcissist. They will think that you are weak and will run from you.
Instant gratification is what he is in search of. Narcissist use other people to feel good about themselves. If he treats you good, he knows you will be his supply until he finds someone else. Then he will devalue you. Then he will discard you. This is a game to the narcissist. You were his target. Learn the 25 signs your man is a narcissist.
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1. Craves admiration and acknowledgment . If you give a narcissist praise he will give you the biggest show of your life. A party isn't a party until a narcissist walks into the room. They have to be the center of attention or else. They feel superior to everyone and will sometimes even pretend to have done something great just for the acknowledgment.
2. Needs compliments to feel good about himself. Compliments make a narcissist feel alive. Their whole game is to be admired 24/7. This is the only thing that gets their juices flowing. He can't go even a day without this. If you don't give him compliments he will find someone that will. He already has his eye on the next target anyway.
3. Is always trying to make himself look good in front of others . Will put on a big show to make himself look superior around people. He demands to be the center of attention or else he'd rather be alone.
4. Loves instant gratification . Narcissists are always searching for people or things that will give them instant gratification. He will have sex with just about anyone who pays him some attention.
5. Never really loves anyone, but himself.
Some may even believe that narcissists aren't capable of loving others at all. They pretend to love. A narcissist feels love physically, not emotionally. This is why they are always searching for new partners. A narcissist shows his love through sex, gifts and paying the bills.
He believes this is all it takes to show love. If you stay with a narcissist for too long, you will forget what real love is.
6. Has to have control. Narcissists are control freaks. He will want to control everything in your life. What you look like, where you go and who you talk to. He will constantly try to make you change to fit what he wants you to be. He will also drill you on even your regular daily activities. He wants to know and be in control of everything.
7. Is in competition with everyone. Narcissists believe they are superior to everyone. They also love it when people compete for their attention. They love the silly fighting women do over them. This will feed a narcissist already too big ego.
8. Is always the victim. He gets a kick out of making people believe he has been wronged. He wants others to feel his fake pain and feel sorry for him. Oh you poor baby, how could she treat you like that.
9. Always shifts the blame. Everything he does is because someone else made him do it. Will take no responsibility for his actions if they are negative. Narcissists avoid problems until they get out of hand. Even if they are late for something. You or someone else was the reason for it.
10. Shows little or no emotion . Narcissists can't stand being around emotional people. Showing a lot of emotions will cause conflict between you and the narcissist. They will think that you are weak and will run from you.
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